LGBTQ+ Family Building Options: From Reciprocal IVF to Known Donors

LGBTQ+ Family Building Options: From Reciprocal IVF to Known Donors

For LGBTQ+ individuals and couples, the path to parenthood is deeply personal—and thankfully, more possible than ever before. Advances in reproductive medicine have expanded family-building options across the LGBTQ+ spectrum, empowering people to pursue biological, genetic, or gestational connections based on their goals and values.

Whether you’re just starting to explore your options or ready to take the next step, understanding what’s available can help you make informed, confident decisions.

At University Reproductive Associates (URA), we are proud to support LGBTQ+ patients with expert, personalized, and inclusive fertility care—every step of the way.

Family Building Options for Lesbian Couples

For couples assigned female at birth, there are several routes to parenthood:

1. Intrauterine Insemination (IUI) with Donor Sperm
   A common starting point, IUI involves inserting donor sperm into the uterus during ovulation. Sperm may come from an anonymous donor or a known donor.
2. Reciprocal IVF
   Also called co-maternity, reciprocal IVF allows both partners to participate biologically: one provides the eggs, and the other carries the pregnancy. This option offers a meaningful way to share the journey of conception and parenthood.
3. In Vitro Fertilization (IVF) with Donor Sperm
   Some couples may choose IVF over IUI due to fertility challenges, age, or a desire for embryo testing (PGT).

Family Building Options for Gay Male Couples

For couples assigned male at birth, the most common option is gestational surrogacy:

1. IVF with an Egg Donor and Gestational Carrier
   An egg donor provides eggs, which are fertilized with one or both partners’ sperm. A gestational carrier (surrogate) then carries the pregnancy. This option allows for a genetic connection to one or both partners, depending on the setup.
2. Sperm Donation to a Known Egg Donor and Surrogate
   Some couples prefer to use a known egg donor (a friend or relative) and/or a known gestational carrier to maintain a connection or for personal, ethical, or legal reasons.

Options for Transgender Individuals and Nonbinary People

Family planning for transgender and nonbinary individuals may include fertility preservation (such as egg or sperm freezing before medical transition) or assisted reproduction tailored to current reproductive anatomy.

At URA, we create a supportive, judgment-free environment for all gender identities and orientations. Our team will guide you through options including:

• Egg or sperm freezing before hormone therapy or surgery
• IUI or IVF using preserved or current gametes
• Surrogacy, donor sperm, or donor eggs as needed

We also collaborate with mental health professionals and legal experts to ensure every patient receives care that is medically sound and emotionally affirming.

Legal and Emotional Considerations

LGBTQ+ family building often involves additional legal steps, such as:

• Second-parent or stepparent adoption
• Contracts for known donors or gestational carriers
• Birth certificate considerations

URA can help connect you with legal professionals who specialize in LGBTQ+ family law to ensure your parental rights are protected from the start.

You Deserve Care That Sees You

Every family is unique—and every family deserves support, respect, and expertise. At University Reproductive Associates, we’re proud to serve LGBTQ+ individuals and couples with inclusive, affirming fertility care that honors your identity, values, and vision for the future.

Start Your Family with URA

Whether you're considering donor sperm, egg donation, reciprocal IVF, or surrogacy, our team at URA is here to guide you with expert care and personalized support. We’ve helped countless LGBTQ+ patients build the families they dreamed of—now, we’re here for you.

Call or schedule a confidential consultation with one of our compassionate fertility specialists today.

Your journey is valid. Your family is possible. And we’re with you every step of the way.