Secondary Infertility: When You’re Struggling to Conceive After a Previous Pregnancy

Secondary Infertility: When You’re Struggling to Conceive After a Previous Pregnancy

Having a child already doesn’t always mean your path to growing your family will be easy. For many individuals and couples, the surprise comes when they try for a second (or third) pregnancy—and it just doesn’t happen.

This experience is known as secondary infertility, and it’s more common than many people realize. It can be just as emotionally challenging as primary infertility, with the added layer of confusion and guilt: “Why is this happening now, when things worked before?”

At University Reproductive Associates (URA), we see many patients facing this exact situation. And the good news is: there are answers—and options.

What Is Secondary Infertility?

Secondary infertility is defined as the inability to conceive or carry a pregnancy to term after previously giving birth without the use of fertility treatment. This can affect both individuals and couples who:

• Had an easy first pregnancy but are now struggling to conceive
• Had a pregnancy that ended in miscarriage or stillbirth and are trying again
• Are now with a different partner and facing new challenges

What Causes Secondary Infertility?

Even if everything went smoothly the first time, fertility can change due to a wide range of factors. Common causes of secondary infertility include:

For Women:

• Age-related decline in egg quality or quantity
• Hormonal imbalances (thyroid disorders, PCOS, premature ovarian aging)
• Uterine changes (scar tissue from a previous delivery or surgery)
• Endometriosis or fibroids
• Blocked fallopian tubes from infection or inflammation

For Men:

• Decline in sperm count or motility
• Lifestyle changes (weight gain, stress, alcohol use)
• Medical conditions like diabetes or low testosterone

Shared Factors:

• Increased stress levels
• Timing and frequency of intercourse
• Lifestyle and environmental changes since the previous pregnancy

When to See a Fertility Specialist

If you’ve been trying to conceive for 6–12 months without success—especially if you’re over 35—it’s time to seek guidance from a fertility specialist.

At URA, we’ll start by doing a thorough evaluation to uncover any changes in reproductive health since your last pregnancy. This includes:

• Detailed hormone testing
• Ovarian reserve evaluation
• Uterine and fallopian tube imaging
• Semen analysis for male partners

From there, we’ll build a personalized treatment plan based on your goals, medical history, and time frame.

Coping Emotionally with Secondary Infertility

Secondary infertility can feel especially isolating. You may hear comments like, “At least you already have a child,” which can feel invalidating when you’re facing real grief, confusion, and longing.

Give yourself permission to feel and process those emotions. Support groups, therapy, and talking with others who understand your experience can help you navigate this unique fertility journey.

There Is Help—and Hope

Secondary infertility can be heartbreaking—but it's also highly treatable. Many patients go on to have healthy pregnancies with the right care and support.

At University Reproductive Associates, we take a compassionate, evidence-based approach to fertility care. Our specialists dig deep to uncover the reasons behind secondary infertility and guide you toward the best path forward.

Let’s Build the Family You Dream Of

If you’re struggling to conceive after a previous pregnancy, you’re not alone—and you don’t have to go through it alone. At URA, we’re committed to helping you understand what’s changed and what’s possible.

Call us or schedule your consultation today to meet with our board-certified fertility specialists and take the next step toward expanding your family—with a team that truly cares.